Today we were at a friend's house, and the boys were both trying to grab the same backhoe toy. So, naturally, I tried to redirect them ("I see you both grabbing this toy. You need to find another solution.") and then I took it away when they kept grabbing and hitting.
(Then they tried to grab and hit me.)
"Use your words," I said.
And they both screamed in unison, "I WANT IT!!!!"