2) This excerpt (below) is what I want to email to my erstwhile friend C. Would that be rude? (Yes. That would be very rude.)
"Q: How has your feminism changed over time? What is the impact of motherhood on your feminism?(h/t to blue milk)For me, the weakest point of my marriage is the risk of falling into a mother-child relationship with my husband. Anyone who can’t be trusted to do their share of household chores is not an adult. [...] The more powerful members of society never do understand what it’s like to be the less powerful member. That’s one of the perks of power – everything seems fair from where you’re standing."